You will never heal the pain of abandonment by continuing to abandon yourself.

Picture this…

You’re always the one who says yes.
Yes to helping a friend, even when you’re exhausted.
Yes to extra work, even when you’re drowning.
Yes to being “the strong one,” even when you’re breaking inside.

Somewhere deep down, you hope your giving will earn you love, acceptance, and safety.
But here’s the counter intuitive truth:
You will never heal the pain of abandonment by continuing to abandon yourself.

Every time you silence your needs to please others, you’re telling your heart it doesn’t matter.
Every time you push your feelings aside to keep the peace, you’re repeating the wound.
The little girl inside you is still waiting for someone to choose her. That someone has to be you.

Self-love isn’t selfish—it’s the foundation for everything else.
When you choose yourself first, you teach the world how to treat you.

So… where in your life are you ready to finally choose you?